Cleansing of d soul

its not wat u do a single day tht matters 4 cleansing of d soul n eternal rewards but wat u do to others as long as u exist...d more gud u do the more hapines wil walk ur way...carrying pots of milk up hundreds of stairs saying n tinkin tis gona cleans ya souls but failing to walk in the way God wans u to-by loving one another would just ruin ur efforts...besides wat harm would it do to u to be nice to those who are harmless to u...or at least try not to say anytin if u dont have anytin nice to say coz u wouldnt wan tht to hapen to u...its tht mple if u ask me...positive vibes will suround u wen ur postitive to urself n others...a simple smile wouldnt not cost u a dime...eventualy leading to sweet and simple conversations...from there the friendship n love grows wit time...just like it did wit my barney fly...love ya all...hugs

Ive never gone for a movie alone till today. The movie that made me do something i said i will never attempt to, as i thought it would be some what embarrassing to walk into the theater all alone and sit all by myself (so lame i used to say when my frens update me on their movie date wit themselves) n tht would be Vinnaithandi Varuvayaa by Gautham Menon...

The Science of Happiness

The fewer desires you have, the happier you will be. Having the right information (truth) leads to contentment. Having the right understanding of the self, our purpose, our origins and our true relationships should free us from the cycles of boom and bust and lead society to that ultimate happiness.

Love All

Love can never be exclusive. The sun does not choose to shine on some flowers in the garden and not others. Love is inclusive and has many faces - caring, listening, sharing from the heart, just accepting someone for what they are right now, are all acts of love, as long as you seek nothing in return. It all starts with acceptance of yourself - you're just fine as you are right now, warts and all. It's not that you will stay that way for ever - but you might, if you don't accept. The secret key to the greatest door called love is acceptance. First your self, then others (especially the ones you currently resist) and eventually...all

Character

Body is visible in a mirror. But character is visible in actions.

Spiritual Language

To create the future we desire we need a spiritual language; we must speak from the heart and in the language of the soul - a language of trust, faith and higher values, of inner growth, love and listening.

Balance

You maintain the balance of responding to situations with a cool head and to people with a warm heart.

Gentleness

Move through the world with the grace of an angel, the dignity of a king and the wisdom of a child.

Determination and Patience

Determination is the strength that will enable you to pass the barrier of useless thoughts in order to create positive thoughts and to be successful in whatever you wish. It comes from within and its partner is patience. Patience teaches you not to push but rather to wait and appreciate the game of life instead, knowing that nothing remains the same, and everything will change at some point.

Doing Your Best

As you do, so you become. Every action that you perform is recorded in you, the soul. These imprints ultimately mold your character and destiny. When you understand this principle, you will pay more attention to bringing your best to everything you do.

Know Love

We seek it here, we seek it there, we look for love everywhere! We expect it to come to us, usually through another person. All our conditioning says it is something that happens to us. The mythology of our fables, legends and modern day entertainment industries say it is something we 'fall into'. And yet...and yet real love cannot be acquired, possessed or accumulated. It cannot be known when we think it comes from outside ourselves. The ultimate paradox is we are it. We are love.

Humility is Greatness

Just as a tree that is full of fruit bows down for others to take the fruit, one who is humble will always live in self respect and treat others with respect

Manners

A person of wisdom and spirituality has very beautiful manners that have grown from genuine respect and love for the whole of humanity. Manners in this sense have nothing to do with culture or education: it is simply a question of humility. When we are at the receiving end of such manners, we feel that some deeper part of us has been honoured. In fact, none of us deserves anything less

What lies within us

What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us

Peaceful and Patient

We are never without the solutions to our problems. It's just that sometimes we may have to wait a little. Learn how to remain peaceful and patient.

Living In Peace

In order to live in peace, try not depend on anyone and at the same time try to help others not to depend on you. Help them become independent, free and responsible for their lives. In the same way, ensure you do not cause anyone sorrow, and do not allow others to be a source of hurt for you.

Unshakeable

If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self pity, these adverse situations that look like they could bury us, have within them the very real potential to make us unshakeable.

Humility

I value others without seeking their attention. Self respect is my inner light. I need nothing extra. I am unafraid of life's great teachings in all their daily guises. Today I will let someone help me.

Life

Ignorance makes you believe that life functions haphazardly. Wisdom teaches you that everything that happens in this theatre of life has profound significance. What you see today is not the fruit of chance but a fruit from seeds planted in the past. Plant seeds of peace now and you will create a life of peace in the future.

Happiness

It is the art of living, the purpose of our existence. Happiness is the true index of quality of life. Without happiness, life is dry and meaningless. With happiness, life immediately becomes fulfilling and wonderful. Happiness is an infectious feeling that immediately lifts the sagging spirits of people. Happy people keep themselves happy because they know the little ways to appreciate themselves and to see the humour and magic in each moment.

Make Up

While we spend much time 'making up' our faces to ensure our appearance is beautiful for others, we forget to make up our minds. This is not about making decisions. Making up our mind means ensuring that our thoughts are positive and our feelings towards others are filled with good wishes. When we do, others begin to sense a deeper beauty emanating from behind the skin! This is inner beauty. Don't hide behind your face. Let the real you show through.

COURAGE

Courage is taking a step forward into an area of difficulty without a solution in mind, trusting that whatever help you need will become available.

Be the EXAMPLE for others to follow

Instead of teaching others by telling them, teach them by doing it yourself.

Take a look at the Lotus Life

The lotus is a symbol of purity. Its roots are in the mud, but the flower remains above dirty water. Live a lotus life. Be in the world, but unaffected by impurities.

Solutions

We are never without the solutions to our problems. It's just that sometimes we may have to wait a little. Learn how to remain peaceful and patient.

Power

Give birth to new possibilities through your ability to reach into the future and let go of the past.

Remember Things of Happiness

When you feel tired, remember things of happiness and you will regain strength.

See the Sweetness

No matter how bad people may seem, they possess at least one virtue. Be like the humming bird and pick out the sweetness of everyone's character.

Tolerance

Someone who cannot tolerate small ills can never accomplish great things.

Forgiveness

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future.

Seeds Of Peace

Sow seeds of peace by remaining rooted in the awareness of how loved, loveable amd loving you are.

Peaceful Mind

Learn how to keep your mind peaceful by feeding good thoughts to your mind.
Let your mind rest.. let it be restful… not restless.

Remember: my mind is my own.

I mustn’t let my mind cause me distress. I cannot slap my mind (suppress the mind)
– I have to give it love. By giving your own mind love you will make it peaceful.

Balance

Maintain the balance of responding to situations with a cool head and to people with a warm heart.

Radiate Happiness

Have you ever noticed that happiness is not a dependency, it is a decision? You don't actually need anything to be happy. It's not something that comes from outside, it comes from inside, and when you radiate a happy energy you'll be amazed what it attracts into your life. Don't worry, be happy...sound familiar? Decide now, be happy, and watch magic begin to enter your life.

Good Relationships

In order to create good relationships... - with your mind, think about what you have to learn from others, - with your eyes, look into good qualities of others, - with your words, recognise, value and appreciate their accomplishments, - with your actions, cooperate and do something for others.

Strength To Continue

Determination brings the strength to continue, the steadiness to succeed, and the wisdom to slip past difficulties undisturbed.

Contentment

Remain content by recognizing the benefit of every moment - and the beauty of every soul.

Making a Life

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Truly Content

Contentment is a great virtue, though it may not attract one's attention at first. Those who are truly content are usually quiet about it. It is a pleasure to be in their company, because they are full, peaceful, and generous.

The Quality of Mercy

A person with the quality of mercy works on such a subtle level that the support given never demeans or implies weakness in the other person.

Acceptance

Accepting others unconditionally allows them to remove their masks and feel at ease with who they are. The security of being accepted gives them the freedom to be themselves and then lets them easily know and accept themselves too.

Harmony

Even when another person seems a world apart from you: find a bridge.

Just Having Fun

Work without happiness is like a burden that you have to endure, but when you are internally happy it becomes a game, and you're just having fun.

Good Wishes

The more good wishes and kind feelings we have for others, the more our own happiness increases.

Self-confidence

Self-confidence is to know your way around yourself so instinctively that you always have a strength to draw on. Somewhere inside, from the stillness, you always find something that can meet your need.

Seeing Things Truly

We tend to see things not as they are, but as we are. Becoming quiet and simple inside is the first step towards seeing things truly.

Serenity and Spiritual Beauty

Beauty comes with self acceptance, self love and self awareness. Self knowledge is equivalent to truth which brings serenity and spiritual beauty.

Give Up the Habit of Worrying

As we grow in strength in our spiritual life, we give up the habit of worrying. It serves no purpose other than to make us feel tense and miserable. When I stop fretting about things that are beyond my control and focus instead on generating optimistic and kind thoughts, my life can begin to flow in ever more positive directions. Such a light and easy approach to life enables me to take everything in my stride.

Motivate Yourself

It's a tough life. Some days its hard to get out of bed and get going. Why? How come our levels of enthusiasm seem to fall so easily? Why can't we get ourselves motivated? Simple really. We try to reverse the energy flow in a universe where all energy is radiating outwards. We try to break one of the spiritual laws. We are taught that winning and achieving is about getting and keeping, when the truth is that it is about giving. Winners are go givers not go-getters, and their definition of winning is not getting one over on the other guy, but overcoming their inertia and giving something of themselves to someone or something other than themselves. This reverses the flow of energy from outside in, to inside out, and as we all know, the deepest satisfaction in life comes from giving.

The Best

The best ornament is Humility. The richest wealth is Wisdom. The strongest weapon is Patience. The best security is Faith. The best tonic is Laughter.

Touch The Stillness

Every action has its seed in a thought and every thought is a creation of the thinker, the soul. I choose what thoughts I want to create and as is my thinking so are my actions and also my experience in life. Going within, I touch the stillness and pure love that lie at the core of my being and every thought that I create is of benefit to myself and of benefit to humanity.

Teach With Love

Teaching others is best done with love, once the heart has understood, the mind opens.

Tolerance

Everybody is right from their own stand point ... hence the need for tolerance.

Sparks of Purity

Words! They are all around me! I see them. I use them. Harsh words, soothing words, biting words; words that give pain and sorrow; words that give joy and pleasure. They are vital to communication. When words are spoken there are reactions, negative or positive. Either thoughts are triggered or emotions fired or actions performed. Words colour our behaviour. And how lovely it is to hear words that are calm and free from rancour and aggression. To hear words that lift the soul and leave it with renewed vigour. Such words are the sparks of purity. It is important to remember that my speech indicates what is in my mind. As the thinking, so the words uttered. Mental calmness makes my words calm. A pure mind makes for pure words. It is said that speech may exalt someone to kingship or send him to the gallows. I should never let myself indulge in false, bitter and vicious speech. My words should reflect my true, inner nature, that of purity and peace. Words, once spoken, can never be recalled. They reverberate all around, beyond our control. Today, as I utter words, what effect will they have on those who hear them? Will they be the words that are poisonous and cause pain? Or will my tongue be like that of the nightingale, sweet and so, so very soothing and lovely to the ear?

Anger

Anger destroys the beauty of the heart as well as the beauty of the face.

Diamond Consciousness

When you look at the world through your physical eyes, you will see all the facets of our diversity: culture, race, personality, religion and so on. Seeing only through your physical eyes, it is easy to become stubborn and to try to prove yourself right. However where there is stubbornness there is no love. And trying to prove the self right is equally offensive. A diamond will sparkle even in the dust; you do not ever need to prove that you are right. In the face of the dangers that come from seeing only with the physical eyes, always think: now is the time to go beyond all divisions, beyond all that limits us and our sense of self. Whatever the race, the religion, the class - our consciousness now has to go beyond all of that.

Failure

Failure doesn't mean - you'll never make it, it means - it will take a little longer.

Real Gentleness

Real gentleness in a person is a great power. The power that sees, understands, but never interferes. Like the branch of the tree, just touching the earth but never taking root in it. Never to take root in someone else’s mind but to help, that’s gentleness.

Trusting GOD

"Trusting GOD wont make the mountain smaller,But will make climbing easier.Dont ask GOD for a lighter load,But ask him for a STRONG BACK".

Fresh Start

If through some error yesterday was lost in grief, don't lose today by keeping it in your memory.

Sweetness

Sweetness is a virtue that searches with patience for the good in every person and situation.

Speaking in Silence

Silence is the best language for communication. It helps us understand and realise the eternal truths about the self, God and the world. In silence we are able to comprehend and express sincerely and powerfully the true values of the soul such as peace, love and joy. Silence is not the absence of thoughts but it is a state in which the mind is engaged in pure elevated thoughts that nuture these values within. The power of silence develops all mental and spiritual powers that are needed to tackle various situations successfully.

Your Choice

Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life.

Just Give

With habits, never give in or we lose our dignity. With the self, never give up or we lose our destiny. With others never give your worst or you will never develop your best. The saying, "What we give us what we receive". The lesson: Just to give.

Cleanliness

The most important places to keep clean and tidy are my mind and heart. If I allow thoughts to flourish that I wouldn't want to see the light of day, I can never have any real self-respect. By starting each day in quiet reflection and pouring positive, loving thoughts into my mind, I gradually clean out cynicism and unkindness.

A Great Power

Gentleness is not a lack of strength but a great power that doesn't force or disturb.

The Influence Of Gossip

I cannot afford to overlook the influence that other people have on me. there are cases where people quarrel, fight and even commit murder because they are influenced by gossip, influenced by the words of others. To what extent do I check that I am not being influenced by gossip? Negativity in the mind is like poison. Negative thoughts are the seeds of negative actions. It might seem like a simple everyday occurrence - my friends tell me in the strictest confidence that such and such a person is like this and does so-and-so. I listen and accept without question because of the friendship. My attitude and actions now become influenced by my friends words, and I find myself acting and reacting in accordance with the information fed to me. Gossip and guessing bring sorrow, heaviness and distrust. Poison can come in many disguises, but poison is poison whether from an enemy or a friend.

Ocean of Silence

In the ocean of silence you may discover your eternal treasures of peace, love and happiness. In silence, you can let bad feelings and past sorrows dissolve. In silence you can hear the whisper of God saying "Come child and rest with Me. You are a peaceful soul."

Balance In Life

The indication of balance in life is a sense of well-being, optimism and a clear conscience. The foundation for achieving this is to look after myself spiritually - making my mind peaceful, loving and thoughtful at all times. Then I will instinctively know how much time to spend on my own well-being and how much on fulfilling other responsibilities. I can only give my best to others when I am myself at my best.

Greed

Diamond alone can cut another diamond and a thorn alone will have to be used to remove another thorn. The tendency to be greedy can be cured by another facet of greed. Instead of showing attachment towards worldly objects, one's attention should be directed towards divinity. We can be greedy to acquire spiritual knowledge. Let me possess a deep desire to develop forgiveness, politeness, straightforwardness and peacefulness.

Positive Attitude

Your attitude creates an atmosphere around you. Your attitude is the result of the way you think and feel. You communicate your attitude. Create a positive attitude, filled with good feelings, and even just your presence will do wonders in situations.

Good Wishes

The more good wishes and kind feelings we have for others, the more our own happiness increases...

Discovering Spirituality

Faith in spirituality enables us to trust ourselves. With trust we can let go of the past and have the courage to dare. To dare with courage gives us the confidence to know that we can achieve what we set out to achieve. If we begin with doubt then we have sown the seed of possible failure. Faith in spirituality always allows us to win. Every step of faith opens another chapter in our lives.

The Final Analysis

People are often unreasonable, self-centred: Forgive them anyway. If you are honest, people may cheat you, but be honest anyway. What you spend years to build, someone could destroy overnight. Build anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow. Do good anyway. You see, in the final analysis it is between you and God; it never was between you and them anyway.

Here's an angel

How can we serve others around us? By making our lives inspirational and interacting with tact and wisdom. We should be so cheerful, and our lives such examples, that they say 'Here is an angel.'

Truth

The power of Truth is such that you need never be concerned about proving it. You need only be concerned with being it and living it. Truth is always revealed, at the right moment, at the right place.

Relationships

Who are the thieves of peace? Why is peace lost in relationships? Complaints, guilt and comparisons are the main destroyers of peace. Instead of complaining, share newness. Instead of looking for someone to blame, take responsibility for improving the situation. Instead of comparing yourself to others, value the good that is in them.

Look for Goodness

In everything, goodness is there. Our goal is to find it. In every person, the best is there. Our job is to recognise it. In every situation, the positive is there. Our opportunity is to see it. In every problem, the solution is there. Our responsibility is to provide it. In every setback, the success is there. Our adventure is to discover it. In every crisis, the reason is there. Our challenge is to understand it. By seeing the goodness, we'll be very enthusiastic and our lives will be richer.

Anger finishes all wisdom

Anger finishes all wisdom. Ego finishes regard. Worry eats away your life. Bribery finishes all justice. Greed finishes all honesty. Fear eats away a human being.

The greatest jewelery in the world is your own nobility.

Your own best companion in the world is your determined thought.

Spotting Qualities

A compassionate person develops an eye for spotting the qualities that make each person special. Even when others are at their lowest ebb, it is possible to help them restore their self-belief by keeping a firm, clear vision of their goodness and specialities. Taking a gentle encouraging approach, I must never give up on anyone.

Daily Decisions

What I am experiencing at this moment is the result of choices and decisions made in the past; what I will experience in the future depends on choices and decisions I make now.

Happiness is a daily decision.

Oasis of Peace

Deep inside our consciousness is an oasis of peace. This is the molten core of the soul, but it is not hot, it is cool. Not passive, but a source of inner power to fuel our mind and intellect, so that we can create powerful thoughts and make accurate decisions. If you can learn to go to this centre, peace will be your companion, positivity your partner, and you will be able to chill out in one second, anywhere, anytime.

Self Manage

There is a huge hole in the heart of all our educations. It is where the skills and abilities of self-management should be. No one teaches us how to manage our thoughts, feelings, attitudes and behaviour, so we find it hard to manage the four Rs – relationships, roles, responsibilities and resources. So let’s get started. Consciously choose the quality of your thoughts today – accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative and clean up the waste.

Everything, which means everything in your life, begins with your thoughts.

Surrender Gracefully

We are surrounded by graceful surrender. The geese surrender to the first autumn chills, and think of flying south. The flower surrenders to the night and shuts up shop as the setting sun surrenders to the horizon of another day. A mother surrenders to the needs of her baby, and the child surrenders to the wisdom of the father. These kinds of surrender are sweet and natural. They are graceful movements in a dance to the subtle symphony of life. While we may find moments to surrender to such grace and beauty, if we are not careful, we also tend to allow ourselves to surrender to our appetites, to envy, to greed and then to self centred lifestyles in which we serve only ourselves. No grace there - only the disgrace of self-inflicted slavery.

Whatever we surrender our minds to, will eventually shape our character and define the quality of our life.

Be careful what you surrender your mind to, even if it's only for a day, or an hour.

A Powerful Force

Love is a powerful force. It can take us to great heights and leave us feeling light and airy. Yet it has been the most abused and misused force. Many degraded things pass for love. True love is based on understanding, mutual trust and respect and not simply on transient emotions. Love is being in balance, that is, in harmony with the self, God and each other. Love dwells in the soul. We must allow this love to flow out and around us. Without love, all of life's treasures are locked away from our vision and experiences, for indeed 'love is the key.'

The hero in Yourself....

Because you have the courage to face yourself, you have the opportunity to meet a hero.

Wow! How Beautiful...

Our Creator has certainly made us just right. We are beautiful just the way we are. If we show ourselves as complete works of art Made by our Creator, a person who can see what art is, can only say "Wow, how beautiful!"

Life is all about choices

Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life.

Relationship is,,,,

Relationship is the art of valuing someone, respecting them, acknowledging them of what they are and can be, binding them in a bond of trust without elements of selfishness and is not about lust but proving that you can co-exist as one with love and go through the obstacles to come with one heart and soul...

A traveller's tip

Only those who stay focused on the destination will reach the destination...

Appreciation of Every Soul

See through God's eyes and feel through God's heart and you will appreciate the value of every soul including yourself.

Life's answers....

Life gives answer in 3 ways... It says Yes & gives u what u want, it says no and gives u something better, it says wait and gives u the Best!

86,400 Seconds

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with RM86,400. Every evening whatever part of the balance you fail to use during the day is deleted. What would you do? Draw out every cent and use it well, of course!!! Each of us has such a bank - Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Invest the day's deposits well, or the loss is yours. How could you bring the most contentment, happiness and benefit to yourself and others? The clock is running.

Forgive

To tolerate someone else's mistakes is one thing. To forgive them is even greater.

Whilst Being Ordinary

To be simple means to be completely pure: to have royalty and greatness whilst being ordinary...

Reflecting Finest Qualities

Let my eyes be a mirror for others, reflecting only the best and finest qualities.

The colours of flowers

Leave worries aside and you will be surprised by the beauty of the sky and the colour of flowers, of the freshness of the breeze and the generosity of the sun. You will feel you are part of creation, and life will start to make sense. The greatest wealth is to appreciate what we have and what we are.

Peacemaker

The first lesson on the path of becoming a peacemaker is to stop being at war with myself. It is only when the turbulence of my mind ceases that I can begin to make peace with the world.

Hope

If at any time I begin to lose hope in myself, let me simply look inside my heart and see all the good actions I have ever performed, from the smallest to the grandest. When I see how much happiness I have given, I easily remember the purpose of my life.

Divine Help

Many times people report the feeling of divine help and strength when they come close to breaking point. Actually divine help is always there, but I am usually so busy doing things in my own little way that I only look for it when I face absolute defeat. The tranquil nature of enlightened souls comes from their ability to take God's help constantly. A state of true surrender will lead to the feeling of victory in everything I do.

Open heart

The heart is like a flower - unless it is open it cannot release its fragrance into the world. The fragrance of the heart is made up of the qualities and virtues of our spirit. Most of us have learned how to keep our heart closed in a world that would trample all over us if we let it. Being open hearted today seems to require tremendous courage. It is a courage which comes only when we realise that no one can hurt us, no matter what they say or do. They may hurt our body, but if we have realised we are spirit, nothing outside can touch us, if we so decide. Little by little, practice opening your heart to those you think have hurt you. Realise it wasn't them that hurt you, it was yourself. And it taught you not to trust and you closed your heart. A closed heart is in need of opening. And when you do, you will have begun to heal yourself.

Recipe for hapiness

Two heaped cups of patience, One heartful of love, Two handfuls of generosity One headful of understanding and a dash of humour. Sprinkle with kindness, add plenty of faith and mix well, Spread over a period of a lifetime and serve to everyone you meet.

Share Your Treasures

Do not hide the treasures in your heart in fear that they will be stolen - instead share them and find they multiply.

Spotting Qualities

A compassionate person develops an eye for spotting the qualities that make each person special. Even when others are at their lowest ebb, it is possible to help them restore their self-belief by keeping a firm, clear vision of their goodness and specialities. Taking a gently encouraging approach, I must never give up on anyone.

Remind Yourself...

If you know a little of yourself, you will have realised that you are more than meets your eyes in the mirror in the morning. What you see is not what you are. You see the form not the content, the body not the soul, the matter not the mind. In quiet and profound moments, we innately know that is true. But we forget. The world tells us and wants us to believe that we are what we see - and we take the easy way out. We believe. That's why the awakening of spirit and the flowering of our spirituality (nothing to do with religion) means we have to keep reminding ourselves, a hundred times a day, I am a soul - not a body, I am an eternal spirit - not a perishable piece of meat. I am quality, not quantity. I am. Otherwise, freedom is not possible. And if we are not free, in the deepest space inside our own being, we cannot be truly happy.

BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS !

This is one of the best explanations of why God allows pain and suffering that I have seen...

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.
As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.
They talked about so many things and various subjects.
When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: 'I don't believe that God exists.'

'Why do you say that?' asked the customer. 'Well, you just have to go out in the street to
realize that God doesn't exist..
Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children?
If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.
I can't imagine a loving God who would allow all of these things.'

The customer thought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument. The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop...

Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and unkempt.

The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:
'You know what? Barbers do not exist.'
'How can you say that?' asked the surprised barber.
'I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!'
'No!' the customer exclaimed.
'Barbers don't exist because if they did,
there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.'

'Ah, but barbers DO exist! That's what happens when people do not come to me.'
'Exactly!' affirmed the customer. 'That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! That's what happens when people do not go to Him and don't look to Him for help.
That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world.'

He is always there for us and never lets go of our hands...he gives us the option and opportunity to make the right move but sometimes some of us just fail to realize this due to the rather distracting environment & the fast changing society's ways...dont fret when tings dont work the way u want it to...its just a phase you have to go through...take that experience to learn a thing or two...seek His guidance...in His time you will receive what is best for you...

BE BLESSED & BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS !

Love is worth more n so are u...

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.

If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....

Love hurts when...

Love hurts when you break up with someone.

It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.

But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

It breaks your heart....

It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but

it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

Heartbreaks...

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

The true measure of compatibility...

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

Love is about...

Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.'

Not 'where are you',but 'I'm right here.'

Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.'

Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'

Never say....

Never say 'I love you' if you don't care.

Never talk about feelings if they aren't there.

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.

Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.

The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

Love...

Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.'

It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

Smiling Opens the Heart

Good feelings for others are like ointments that heal wounds and re-establish friendships and relationships. Good feelings are generated in the mind, are transmitted through your attitude and are reflected in your eyes and smile. Smiling opens the heart and a glance can make miracles happen...

Love life for the fact that you are living it right

Sometimes the people and the happenings in your life makes you realize alot of things....a fren reminded me how much i love my life & the fact that im living it right....thanks to manbir's msn shoutout i realize i really do so.... : )

A song in your heart...

Everyone has a song in their heart. Everyone has a reason for being here and a season for making their highest, greatest most auspicious contribution. No one knows what that is or when that is for anyone else. Only our own heart knows what and when it is for us. Your heart wants to sing. Don’t die with your music still within you. There is a reason for everything and a purpose to your life. Too many fail to listen to the song in their heart and therefore fail to find their purpose and their part. What makes your soul sing and your heart dance? Actually you heart is your soul and you are both! Ask this one question of yourself but don’t be in a hurry to answer it. Live in the question for a day, a week, a month. Let it invite your heart to speak to you. And when you are absolutely sure what your heart is saying is true then begin to invoke the changes necessary in your life so that you live in alignment with your song. Be patient with this

Expect, God, Attempt

If u "EXPECT" great things from "GOD" , then "ATTEMPT" great things to receive it...

sometin i saw on manbir's facebook shout out which i truly agree on...he lays before u the choices and options for you to choose and make good use for the better...its all up to you to decide how you shape your future...

Perfect

Practice makes you perfect so be careful what you practice!

Qualities...

The more you appreciate your own qualities, the stronger they will become...

Silence

It is when we silence the chattering of our mind that we can truly hear what is in our heart and find the still, clear purity that lies within the soul. Spiritual love carries us into the silence of our original state of being. This silence contains the power to create harmony in all relationships and the sweetness to sustain them.

The Wealthiest...

The wealthiest of all are those who are pure hearted....

Let go...

Just as the bird has to find the courage to let go of the branch in order to fly, so we also must let go of our branches if we are to know the exhilaration of soaring to the highest potential of our life. The branches we hold to are our inner attachments - our beliefs, ideas and memories. And then there are the outer attachments - people, possessions, positions and privileges are a few. But as long as we hold on to them we will live in fear (of letting go and loss) and we will never be free. And just watch those birds, by letting go of one branch they are able to spend the rest of their life alighting on a million other branches, and they enjoy the view from each.

Are you flying and soaring in your life, or are you stuck on one branch, cursing others as they fly past.

Go on, try it ...let go!

Sometimes in life...

Sometimes in life i thought i was Wrong but i was actually Wrong about having the thought that i was Wrong...

(i was right)

Elvina 2: 9

When facing challenges in life dont fight but defeat it by doing the unpredictable...

Elvina 2:8

Sometimes you should put aside logic and do what you feel is right....

Elvina 2:7

Pursue what your heart desires....

Higher than the sky...

Keep wearing virtues as your ornaments.
Keep loving others.
Keep giving regard.
You have to go beyond the stars.
Keep thoughts higher than the sky, and abundance of patience like the earth.
Keep spiritual love in your eyes.

Elvina 2: 6

Failures happens...it can be because we we didnt have our heart and soul in doin it or merely because it wasnt meant for us...that doesnt mean we should quit trying...because when u decide to stop trying u have already lost the battle...

Never give up or quit trying as the trials u make brings u closer to your destiny - success

Elvina 2:5

The sky is never dark forever...the beaming sun will come out & shine its bright cheerful rays and let life be the colourful rainbow it is...when its gloomy, they are just taking turns to play their part...just like the moon n sun coming out when they do and make day n nite what it is....

True Peace

True peace can be experienced only when we stop giving and taking sorrow. In order not to give sorrow we need a clear heart that has no ill feelings and for not taking sorrow we need a big heart that can tolerate and help other souls to get over their weaknesses.

Elvina 2:4

When something slips away from your grip, it is to make way for the better one you deserve coming your way....the time you await to receive it is the time God takes to make it perfect the way you should get it...

Elvina 2:3

Being true to yourself and the people around you speaks louder than anything else....

Be an example...

everyone lives a normal life
be an example...
teach something when u learn something

~manbir~

I've changed?

I have heard quite a number of people telling me that i've changed...maybe i have but i dont see any bad in it...i think ive just moved on...for the better...ive also thought about it but today after reading Manbir's pm on msn i guess ive got my answers...

"You may say ive changed, but the truth is ive stop living life your way"

guess people who said ive changed had a certain expectation that this should be how i should live my life and when i did not the way they assume they say ive changed...the truth is they dont know the future...they predicted but im destined for something else...so "you've changed" they say...

The world...

A fellow fren who loves using quotes had this as his msn shout out which caught my attention at once...the way i see the world today, it is kinda true:

The world is full of selfish people...so appreciate the ones who love you without any expectations...

~Manbir~

dont wait until its to late to appreciate what they are to you...cherish the moment you have and make it the moment that made a difference in your life...

goin...movin...

God keeps me going,,,
Redbull keeps me moving....

~ Manbir Singh ~

Elvina 2:2

We are all stars and we deserve the right to shine brightly in the eyes of the world....

Elvina 2:1

Never assume and judge how good or bad a person is by the appearance they project...

Elvina 1: 10

Too much laughter can lead to crying sometimes....

Elvina 1:9

Do not love a love that hurts & do not hurt love that loves...

Elvina 1:8

Trust yourself and believe in what you do and the rest will fall into place....

Elvina 1:7

what goes around comes around...

Elvina 1: 6

do not do unto others what you do not want to be done unto you....

Elvina 1: 5

Nothing is ever impossible...

Elvina 1: 4

For things to change I must change...

Elvina 1: 3

Smile and the world smiles with you...

Elvina 1:2

The right things happens at the right time...

Elvina 1:1

Everything happens for a reason...

A moment of solitude...

When I start the day with a moment of solitude and contemplation, even the most crowded schedule runs more smoothly...something that is rather essential to stay calm n collected...

Treasures...

All human beings have a place inside which is filled with treasures; be still and you will find it...

i believe ive found mine...writing...my treasure...the wealth i have...my believes that i hold on to...adds on to the value of life...

Life's journey & the people u meet along the way...

life's journey does indeed create a lots of meet ups with people u know and the ones who are strangers and later become friends from acquaintances. Some are thought to be friends to keep but turn out to be the people u wish u never knew in the crossroads of life while some are to be treasured. Never judge a book by its cover they say. and i say never assume how bad or good a person is by the appearance they project. Or should i say never judge anyone as we arent anyone to do so as we are also judgeable. Someting that is rather so true which ive learn the hard way but was never too late as i believe im smart enough to eliminate the bad apples from my life cycle.

I think its rather necessary to put aside the things that trouble u & slow u down from getting where u are destined to. Life is of course never smooth all along the way just like someone i know told me-if ur never sad over the events u had to go through in life then u gota b dead. ironically true. life consist of all the elements there could be. simplifying it-its bitter sweet n sour n spicy and sometimes a mixture of it.

As its was a saturday nite, as ususal me n jass headed to heritage, to mumbai se-our usual partying place where we groove to the music and chill with friends. Some nites are nites to remember not only with the reason of an even taking place but when u meet people who make adifference in the rest of your life's journey.

And again im saying-never assume the person u are looking at isnt looking at u coz he is and not all are cowards or indecent who just go home and forget bout it, the unique ones would come uo to u and ask u out for a drink - a decent outing i mean to chat just like friends do. its always good to meet and get to know people and add meaning to life and broaden horizons.

So yes, we (me,jass,manbir,jasvinder) went out for a drink near by and had a pretty long chat before getting back home at about 6am! was nice that he likes to use quotes too. one that impressed me was - sometimes we think we are wrong, but we are wrong thinking that we are wrong - meaning we were actually right!. we did go through some of my my quotes - everything happens for a reason & the rught things happens at the right time. both of us got jasvinder crazy-hahah...lots to learn small boy.. : p

Some how we were chatting bout which phase of life we liked better - college or working life. jass voted for her working life. me both coz i had equaly great fun and made great use of the time i had in doin well in studies n jump starting my career. manbir said people always say the other is better when shit happens. I told him that wat ever that is to happen is meant to happen-everything happens for a reason-the right things hapens at the right time.

We were then talking bout how some guys are just jerky and how some good looking gals are snobs and are so influenced by bollywood movies. he then asked like just generally which is also link to one of the many topics we were talking bout wheter im happy wit my life and i said yes & that i wouldnt trade it for anything on earth. he said when he look at me saying that he knows that theres someting troubling me, im not happy wit somethings in life but put on a smile on my face.when i asked how he knows and why he says that, he said the way i said it shows and that he has met many people which taught him the difference of a fake and genuine smile.

I guess i did partially lie. but i wasnt trying to fake a smile. shit happens sometimes in life but that doesnt mean we gota be all sad and gloomy throughout. i might as well smile and make those around me smile with me & create a brighter day for all those around. guess i so wish my life wasnt this way. i wish it could have been different but then again, its meant to be. we are to go through this to make us what we are. Plus im proud to say i am wat i am today stronger to face tougher challenges due to the path i had to go through. which brings it down to everythin haooens for a reason and the right tings happens at the right time. which is also wat i said when he told me he has a catholic fren who is a very nice guy & the gal who is to b wit him is lucky.Well if its meant to be it will happen.

it's definately nice to meet people who can be ur friends and they dont have any expectations from u. the type of people who are to stay in the journey we continue going through in life. some whom u thought are nice might treat u like a stranger down the road which makes u feel bad a little but then again if it has to end it will. they are just not meant to be a part of the journey we are to endure.

Suppose life is like a box of chocolates-full of surprises-u never know who u gona meet along the way...

Introversion....

The ability to enjoy one's own company is one of the greatest gifts life has to offer. Learning to turn my thoughts away from all my responsibilities at the day's end and take my mind into a state of peace and benevolence enables me to carry greater and greater loads without feeling the burden. When my inner landscape is full of beautiful thoughts, everything I do is a pleasure. Gently, I calm down chaotic situations and offer solace to troubled minds.

Thinking too much...

The biggest disease of the mind is over-thinking, especially too much thinking about others. Thinking too much is like eating too much. The heaviness makes it impossible to remain light and flexible.

give ur mind, heart n soul a little peace without the burden of the weight from too much of thinking...

FAITH

for we walk by faith & not sight...
he will shine the light on the path we are to take...
he never leaves us in the dark alone...
its all to give us time to take some time & ponder...
and makes tings better in the next trip we are to take...
he knows wats best for us & wil give it to us in his time...
not my will but urs be done...

Trustee Consciousness

We all have a relationship with everything. Obviously the relationship we have with the people and objects in our immediate vicinity is more intimate than the rest of the world. For most of us the most common relationship is possession. In our minds we think we own and possess things like cars and houses and carpets and golf clubs etc. This thinking easily spreads into jobs and tasks and positions and perhaps even other people. "I want you", and "You are mine alone", is the essence of many romantic film scripts and song lyrics. What we forget is that this relationship is wrong. It is not possible to possess anything. Care for..yes. Use...yes. But possess...no. You can't take it with you when you go, so we say! And yet it's the idea of possession which lies at the heart of all fear, war and conflict. Can you see it? Fear of loss, fear of not acquiring what we have already decided is ours in our minds. So what is a better relationship we can choose which takes all the fear away. Be a trustee. Everything comes to us in trust, for us to use and then to set it free. The consciousness of trustee sets us free of the tension of grasping and guarding. To see ourselves as trustees of everything that we receive, including our bodies, encourages our innate capacity to 'care for with dignity'. It is a much more relaxing way of relating to the things which we are privileged to receive in life.

Treasures

Make good thoughts the treasures of your life and you will become prosperous.

Tolerance...

You have the power to tolerate anyone and any situation. But tolerance is not just suffering in silence. It means going beyond any personal discomfort you may feel, and giving a gift to whom ever you would tolerate. Give your time, attention, understanding, compassion, care - all are gifts, which paradoxically, you also receive in the process of giving. And, as you do, you will experience your own self esteem and inner strength grow. In this way you can turn tolerance into strength.

Respect

The respect you earn is no lesser or greater than your own self-respect & the respect you give others.

Therefore, respect yourself , others & GOD and the world will respect you.

Peace

Do not look for peace outside, for it lies within the soul

How do i look?

i just got my new hair do last week n i was in my new outfit....as i had a handful of friends who are close to my heart and would give me honest comments especialy my colleagues who are more like family to me as im with them all day as im in office in the morning n only home at nite.

Melvin yap happen to walk by my department, hes a realy nice guy fren who makes me smile alot. The one who joins us - me n emily - after work as we sometimes walk to the train station n get mcd ice cream along the way.

Melvin said sometin that was so true: u look good in anything - when u are comfortbale in wat u r wearing - comfortable in ur own skin....

i knew then that i look good coz i am comfy in my own skin n wat i choose to put on...

the most unselfish act...

...the most unselfish act one can ever do is paying forward all the kindness one has received even to the most undeserved person*

Being with myself...

Being enlightened means being self aware. Awareness of yourself means you don't miss anything inside. You are aware of things like the quality of your thoughts and feelings, of how you sometimes give your power to others, and how your self-esteem occasionally fluctuates. You don't miss anything because you know that knowing yourself is vital to being comfortable with yourself. Are you comfortable with yourself? No! Then be with your self, talk to your self, listen to your self today. Pursue what your heart desires.Take a few moments out and have a meeting with yourself. Put yourself in your diary. Put your self at the top of your to list. And write next to it, 'being with myself'. Miss nothing in your self coz the essence of a beautiful life is beneath the moments you start listening to your self and start being yourself which brings out the colourful rainbows for you to enjoy despite having have to go through the ugly storms as you pass each day...

God is now here....

Each and every one of us see things in a different perspective….here’s two scenarios that spurs the thought…

When we are hit with problems and when failures come along the journey we often say this:

GOD IS NO WHERE…

But when you start seeing beyond the hurdles and take all that happens as the factors that would make you stronger in facing tougher obstacles in the future then you would know that:

GOD IS NOW HERE….

He is often around us but we failed to sense his presence…

We might not be able to see him in physical form but he never fails to send us the best solutions we need for the problems faced in his own time when… everything happens for a reason and the right things happens at the right time…

We often fail to make the right move from the choices of path to be taken that he has given us…but he always has our back no doubt we take things for granted and turn our backs on him countless times….

God is in each one of us when we show love and banish hatred and put behind the evil mankind ways….

Quit searching out there when he lives in us….let others feel that GOD IS NOW HERE through your ways in life….

Love letter...

A friend of mine was on the phone with me and through the conversation he said this to me:

" So call writer who never wrote a love letter before in her life"

I was like omg! yes i havent....hmmm... i guess we are all to busy chasing material wealth that we missed out an imprtant element in life....love....writing a snail mail...a love letter....or just calling up a loved one and saying i love and letting them know how much they mean to us...supose its time to do so before its to late and the opportunity to do so is no longer in existence....

Good turns bad....

We are all born with certain values and gifts…some are good sportsmen…some are good with gadgets while some have the incredible artistic abilities…and they all know from the bottom of their hearts that it’s their special gift which is what make them different from everyone else…The one who is artistic might not be good in sports or numbers just like the way I am…

Your believes, values and the trust you have on the existence of the almighty above comes with you when you step on earth…Due to the influences and distractions an individual faces on earth, a society of disbelievers are born…

Another fraction of them misunderstand and misinterpret the teachings which has created the disharmony we face today be it politically and religiously mainly besides affecting their ability to think straight which lead to the increase in crime rates, never ending voices pleading for wars to end, and a loss of a safe present and future…

A night to remember...

I walked into my cousin’s room the other night. It was definately a night to remember. I saw my little cousin sister kneeling and saying her prayer before getting into bed. Melissa is just nine, parents divorced when she was three and all three of them live with their daddy.

It kinda pierced me inside to see that she’s so young yet so disciplined to do so each night before getting into bed. I sat down beside her and said a prayer for her. Asking God to shower her with his blessings and protect her from all evil. I later asked her what she prayed for.

She smiled and said she can’t tell. So I made some wild guesses and was told im wrong. I guessed she prayed to get the stuff she has in mind – gifts/toys and all. Proves that im not always right. They say kids are innocent, thoughts are pure and are from their heart.

She then decided to tell me that she prayed for her to have beautiful dream when she closes her eyes to sleep. At that moment it striked my mind to how many of us are rather materialistic in today’s world that we would not pray for such a simple yet beautiful thing.

I suppose there wouldn’t be and if there is the fraction would be as small as can be. The night that truly touched me. Made me stop and think & start seeing things in a different angle and light through the eyes of a child. A night to remember…

Wishes & Hopes...

I was watching Dance India Dance the other day on Zee tv. I was moved by that particular episode on account of a favourite contestant, Salman. Till this very moment I’m able to recall everything he said which shows how much what he said has affected me that night.

His parents were there that night to watch and support him. He said that his parents are everything to him and what he is today and everything he ever has is because of them and the love & support they have given him which has brought him thus far.

He added that he hates to see them cry because they mean the world to him. I watched him hug his mom and cried. Was a touching sight indeed. I got all teary. Wished I could feel and say the same too.

But I suppose I have learned to accept the way I had to go through things. What I hope for now is for me to mean the world t the life I am to bring on earth. Give all the love and support I know there is to be given. And to hear them say that bout me.

Love a love that....

Never love a love that hurts...
never hurt a love that loves !!!

if you lose a love that hurted you and you know will hurt you more, dont feel hurt to the slightest cause there is a love out there waiting to love and be loved that will not hurt you....love a love that gives but not take from you, especialy happiness....

Take time ....

Take time to laugh, it is the music of the soul. ..Take time to think, it is the source of power... Take time to read, it is the fountain of wisdom. ..Take time to love and be loved, it is a God-given privilege... Take time to work, it is the price of success...Never take time for granted....for the times gone by will never come back and only regret will haunt when its all too late to turn time back...

Mark ur stay....

Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail...

~Preet~
(wonder if he cetak rompak la) ahahahhehehuhuhu

*caught my attention the minute i read it...sumtin i truly believe in...mark ur stay...make ur journey a lead to the rest....for it should be legendary to those who are still around when years has long gone by....*

I know...

If I could change the past, I might wana do it but I auppose we have to go through a certain path to get where we should be. It feels like your whole life is ahead of you and you have big plans. You then await for the one who completes you to change things for the better for it feels as if when the right one comes your whole life runs right, but as you get older you realize it is alwiz not that easy.

The route gets tough at times. The load on your shoulders get a little heavier. The happy moments you share with the precious people you have in life are not alwiz there to stay, but life has to go and my journey is defiantely yet to be completed, my dreams are yet to be fulfilled, my destiny is still in the making. It won’t be that easy but I know I will get there...

After lunch at bangsar and strolling in MPH on a usual Saturday outing, I saw a book with my second name printed as the author’s name...and I knew that this is what I am here for...i was reassured that this is my destiny...my life’s journey...it’s just a matter of time...this is the true happiness I long for as a part of my future...

For the past is dead and buried...I wish it could have been different though...having a perfect family and all...wishing for things to have been the way i wanted it to be...but I guess it has all made me stronger and got me half way through where I should get...for i still strongly believe that everything happens for a reason and the right things happens at the right time....

Not my will but your will be done...you lay before us the options and it is on up to us to make our way through....and i know you are always there by my side offering me your shoulder to hang on to...reaching out your arms for me when i fall through the wonderful people you send me...i dont think i would have to ever ask u but only thank u when i put my hands together to pray for i know u will give me what i deserve best....

Easy said but not tht easy done...

Peace of mind comes not from wanting to change others, but by simply accepting them as they are.

Set your sails...

The wind may blow from any direction, but the direction in which you go depends on how you set your sails.

Generosity...

Generosity means more than just giving. It also means to cooperate with others. The greatest act of generosity is to see beyond the weaknesses of others, helping them to recognise their innate value.

True Peace...

True peace can be experienced only when we stop giving and taking sorrow. In order not to give sorrow we need a clear heart that has no ill feelings and for not taking sorrow we need a big heart that can tolerate and help other souls to get over their weaknesses.

Magnet of goodwill...

The one who possesses cheerfulness becomes like a magnet of goodwill.

Never stop smiling...

Life is short
Break the rules
Forgive quickly
Love truly
Laugh constantly
And never stop smiling no matter how strange life is…

Smile & be grateful...

Life is not always the party we expect it to be
but as long as we are here,
we should smile and be grateful

Keep ur head in the game...

If I keep the weaknesses of others in my mind they will soon become part of me.

Live life on purpose...

If you don't live life on purpose you live life by accident. Why do some days feel like a motorway pile up? It's because you haven't sorted out your purpose yet. The highest purpose is always giving, or serving others, without wanting anything in return. This is why relaxation is always impossible if we are always 'on the take'. There is an overall purpose for your life, and each of the many scenes which fills your day are opportunities to serve your purpose. Take time to think deeply, listen to your intuition, and with patience, the reason why you are here, and what you uniquely have to give, will occur to you. Then you can live your life 'on purpose'.

The truth is...

Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who wouldn't give up on them...

Letting go...

Letting go doesn't mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be...

Ive learned...

I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up; it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories...

You are wat u wana be...

What we are today is result for our own past actions; what eva we wish to be in the future depends our present actions; for wat we are wat eva we wish to be...

Sometimes, Someone, Something...

Sometimes, someone may say just a few words to you, but those something may change your life forever...

Yesterday...Today...Tomorrow....

Yesterday is history, Today is a gift, and Tomorrow is a mystery. Live each day as though it were your last, with the things that are truly going to last...

Money & Love...

Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return...

Who ever my true love maybe...i know i will love u with all my heart...

Regret or Rejoice...

For everything u have missed, you have gained something else; And for everything u gain lose something else. it is all about ur outlook towards life. you can either regret or rejoice.

IT GOES ON....

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life:

It goes on...

LIFE...

Everyone must go through a storm to get to a rainbow

A Gift...

A gift may not be able to represent how deep a person is in love with you, but one thing is certain, a person who never gives will never be able to take

Today - a GIFT.....a Fren...

I should say I really had a great time last week on the 2nd of April 09. They say when you have a good start, inclusive of a good breakfast in the morning, everything will fall perfectly into place. And it definitely did till today even though it has been a week but the positive vibes is still lingering around me.

I think it’s rather greater when you share that most important time of the day with a certain someone who is close to your heart. Which is what makes it best. The usual place that I was at and the toast and coffee we had at Meal Station felt like a million bucks so much so I didn’t realize time flew like an impatient rocket hurrying off planet earth.

The every moment I had and have I shall treasure. And I shall treasure it because I shared it with someone special. Special enough that they found time to share some time with me. True it is that time waits for no one. But the one who chases the little time there is with you will always be some one to be treasured.

Yesterday is indeed a History. Tomorrow is a definite Mystery. But today is a Gift. And the day I had a week ago truly was for it is a gift given to me which made the rest of my day and the tomorrow to come a better one. And that is why it is called the Present.

Peace & Harmony...

Indonesian singer Agnes Monica has cleared the air over her song Allah Peduli (Allah cares) which has upset some Malaysians, saying that it was actually a gospel number.

The controversial song was banned by the Selangor Islamic Religious Council.

In an interview with Kosmo!, Agnes, 23, said the controversy was the result of a “language problem” which should not create disharmony or suspicion.

The song, she said, not a commercial song for radio play but for church worship, adding that it was not an issue in the predominantly Muslim Indonesia.

She said that Christians in Indonesia also used “Allah” to refer to God and Jesus Christ.

To a question, Agnes was quoted that she did no wrong in using the word Allah.

“That is why I said it is a language problem. I am not being insensitive but this is a use of language,” she said, adding that the difference in language usage should not be a reason to cause disharmony.

She chose not to blame those who made an issue out of the matter, adding:

“Rather than debating this issue, let’s find positive things and live in harmony and mutual respect.”

Something I realy hope for….the day they would feel less insecure and learn to respect and accept others will be the day they are truly living up to their faith if it does preach any good….

Peace & harmony….

God, Life, Love, Us...

If God is the DJ, then Life is the dance floor; Love is the rhythm, and You are the music.

So lets rock the party while we are at it….

live life to the fullest …

value the wonderful moments and cherish the precious peepz we meet along the way...

for everything happens for a reason...

the right things happens at the right time...

Finding the ONE...

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, that’s her...

Im still awaiting for the ONE....

The past, present & the FUTURE...

If I could change the past, I might wana do it but I think we have to go through this path to get where we should be. Your whole life is ahead of you and you have big plans. You await for the one who completes you and to change things for the better for it feels as if when the right on comes your whole life runs right, but as you get older you realise it is alwiz not that easy. The route gets tough at times. The happy moments you share with the precious people you have in life are not alwiz there to stay, but life has to go on as my journey is yet completed, my dreams are yet to be fulfilled, my destiny is still in the making. It won’t be easy but I know I will get there...

After lunch at Bangsar and strolling in MPH last Sunday, I saw a book with my second name printed as the author’s name on the cover...and I knew that this is what I am here for...this is my destiny...my life’s journey...it’s just a matter of time...this is the true happiness I long for as a part of my future...for the past is dead and buried...I wish it could have been different though...having a perfect family and all...but I guess it has all made me stronger and got me half way through where I should get...when the going gets tough the tough gets going they say…

Im glad to have great people around who help me take another step ahead…my aunts…grandparents…great frens….things they say and do surely gives me the strength I need to overcome the obstacles ahead….a sweet cousin sister of mine sent me something that made me feel good again…made me know what others see in me…which I appreciate from the bottom of my heart…

[c=#003651][b]♠ Sm๏๏sHy ♠[/b][/c] says:
“i must say u're a very inspired person...very determined in life...and thats how it should be...keep going that way and trust me u would have a beautiful life...God is always with you..so have courage in yourself...you're intelligent and a bright individual...let love fall into its place..as for now..u r doing great..u have a wonderful life and an awesome future ahead of you...”

THANKS BABE….

Couple of days back, I kinda had an issue with my so called mom…it was my sister’s bday n nor me or my bro or any cousin or aunts n uncle wished her coz we don’t know her bday since we aint that close…my biological mother made a huge issue out of it…firing at me non stop through sms’es and at the same time my aunt got them too…reason why I say biological mom is coz the person who was there for me like a real mom were my granny and aunts…especially my godmother…she always has my back but as you grow older and they have kids of their own we gota find our own way I should say…

Coming back to the story…then is when I realised that this people are all out to make a move when they think a made the slightest mistake…I didn’t argue much though I could have…I wonder what if I question her on the times she was never there for me…when only my dad, bro, sis would come over to my granny’s place to celebrate my bdays throughout my childhood years…the times when I had to call her to inform how well I did in my exam…the times she never called like other moms do to see how im doing…the time when both of them missed my confirmation mass…the times when I was down and not them but my aunts were there for me and still are – the people I can count on….

I did great without you both and I know I am so much better of without the presence of the both of you as you don’t comfort me but add on to my grieve and all this slows me down from getting to where I am destined to unlike the other genuine people who have been there for me all this while…

Rethinking bout the things i said and the things i have in mind bout them, I realize it does sound kinda mean but then again it is a fact...knowing that they are there but they are not there for me...knowing that they could have made a difference for the better but didnt make a move on it...but well by gones are by gones...those moments will never come back for it to be different for i suppose it is meant to be this way...

So I say to my past, the unpleasant memories and the undesirable moments – you are so detached…To my awesome future and the precious people whom I will be with along the way – here I come…

What is the world turning into?

How could people turn into such heartless animals?
Going on murder sprees, killing with no mercy, hurting others out of jealousy
Is there no room for a safe tomorrow?
She has a wedding in mind in another 2 days and today others are attending her’s and her dad’s funeral
There’s no point in me hoping they get caught because I doubt it
I just pray that there won’t be more beasts like this in the future
I hope for a better tomorrow with civilize individuals

Why do people rush into making a mistake and then regret it later?
Wouldn’t it be easier to do the right thing in the first place?
They make a mistake and then step away and run away from the responsibilities
How could a mom just leave an adorable little girl?
She’s just four and needs a proper family for a better future
How could a mom just put her to sleep and disappear the next moment?
I hope kids won’t have to go through such a life in order to have a better future & help create a globalize nation

Today’s paper surely shocked me!
What is the world turning into?
How are we to change things for the better?
Will the world ever be a better place for all?
Can we as individuals ensure a secured globe for the future generation?
When will all the wrong doings be given a total full stop from corruption to the smallest crime?
I pray for the world to be a better place, a brighter tomorrow…

When life throws a BRICK at us....

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed downwhen he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door!

He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, 'What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?' The young boy was apologetic. 'Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do,' He pleaded. 'I threw the brick because no one else would stop...' With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. 'It's my brother,' he said, 'he rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up.'

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, 'Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me.'

Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. 'Thank you and may God bless you,' the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.

It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message:

'Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!'

God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts.Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not.

Thought for the Day:

If God had a refrigerator, your picture would be on it.

If He had a wallet, your photo would be in it.

He sends you flowers every spring.

He sends you a sunrise every morning Face it, friend - He is crazy about you!

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow,sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, great people to help go through the tough tomorrow and light for the way.

If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it...

The “To Do’s” I have in mind for now….

• Always be in happy mode
  
• Do not depress myself with unwanted thoughts
  
• Make a difference for the better
  
• For things to change I must change
  
• Create positive vibes to all around me
  
• Re-do my hair – curls
  
• Add colour to the curls for a change
  
• Get my contact lenses done
  
• Get a tattoo – has to be my own design
  
• Get into a better shape
  
• Get to the next level of my career
  
• All of a sudden have the thought of speaking to a crowd of young hopefuls who intend to follow this career path…I have to grow a little older n wiser though
  

At this moment…

At this moment,

I wonder how some people can be so ignorant of the inconvenience and pain they bring unto others through their actions

At this moment,

Im thanking God for giving a bunch of wonderful people who help me get through the tough tomorrow to come

At this moment,

I wish the past was different that I won’t be deprived of a normal childhood and growing up moments which I deem lost

At this moment,

I thank the almighty for everything till this point no matter good or bad as I know everything happens for a reason & the right things happens at the right time which is what has mould me into the person I am today...

When you're down to nothing, GOD is up to something...

It's a POWERFUL PRAYER! When you are DOWN to nothing God is UP to something'

Father, in the Name of Jesus, bless me even while I'm reading this prayer and bless the one that sent this to me in a special way. Open doors in our lives today, Save and set free! Give us a double portion of your Spirit as we take back everything that the devil has stolen: Emotional Health, Physical Health, Finances, Relationships, Children, Jobs, Homes, Marriages. I cancel every plot, plan and scheme the enemy has devised Against us in the NAME OF JESUS. And I declare: NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST US WILLPROSPER. I speak LIFE into every dead situation. And, I thank you that nothing is over until YOU say it's over! Speak prophetically into our lives and to our situations: our households are blessed;our health is blessed;our marriages are blessed;our finances are blessed;our relationshipsare blessed;our businesses are blessed;our jobs are blessed;our children are blessed; our grandchildren are blessed;our parents are blessed; our siblings are blessed; our ministries are blessed; our decisions are blessed; our friends are blessed. Mortgages are paid and debts canceled; our hearts' desires are on the way; According to YOUR perfect will and plan for our lives. YOU SAID YOU'D NEVER FORSAKE US! IN JESUS' NAME! AMEN!

A kid asked Jesus... How much do U love me? Jesus replied, 'I love! You this much.' and he stretched his arms to the cross and died for us. .

*True enough, ive been down to almost nothing lately...but thanks to the beautiful people God has sent to be by my side knowing that some would forsake me have been the most wonderful gift ever. Ms.Emily my fren and my fashion consultant, has always made my day. Imagine this: this sweet gal's hse was broken into last week but she never failed to make sure there's a smile on my face and today we had lunch and then headed to the street market where she got me 2 awesome tops. A chilhood fren of mine also did the same. I was so reluctant to follow her for her shopping session since some parasites made my life miserable but she dragged me along and also got me 2 dresses. But i guess she wanted company thats why. Theres also a bunch of great people who never made me feel lonely. Such as Mr.DJ who made my 2009 February the best time of the year. Max aka the one i used to cherish the most who still thinks of my well being. I thank GOD for all this wonderful gifts. May GOD Bless them always.